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Sufigirl81
Warga 1 Bintang Menyertai: 19.05.2003 Ahli No: 559
Posting: 25
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Posting pada: 09-06-03 13:26
Assalamualaikum......sedikit titipan utk kaum muslimah dalam pencarian seorang insan yang bernama lelaki dan suami. Kasih manusia sering bermusim, sayang manusia tiada abadi. Kasih Tuhan tiada bertepi, sayang Tuhan janjiNya pasti" Itulah sedikit dari bait2 lagu Raihan. Lantaran kasih manusia yg sering bermusim dan sayangnya yg tak kekal lama, kita perlu sentiasa berwaspada terutamanya dlm memilih pasangan. Andainya sikit drpd cinta itu hendak diberi pada seseorang yg boleh digelar suami, pilihlah seorang lelaki yang... 1-Kuat agamanya. Biar sibuk macamana, solat fardu tetap terpelihara. Utamakanlah pemuda yg kuat pengamalan agamanya. Lihat saja Rasulullah menerima pinangan Saidina Ali buat puterinya Fatimah. Lantaran ketaqwaannya yg tinggi biarpun dia pemuda paling miskin. 2-Baik akhlaknya. Ketegasannya nyata tapi dia lembut dan bertolak-ansur hakikatnya. Sopan tutur kata gambaran peribadi dan hati yang mulia. Rasa hormatnya pada warga tua ketara. 3-Tegas mempertahankan maruah. Pernahkah dia menjengah ke tempat2 yang menjatuhkan kredibiliti dan maruahnya sebagai seorang Islam. 4-Amanah Jika dia pernah mengabaikan tugas yang diberi dengan sengaja ditambah pula salah guna kuasa, lupakan saja si dia. 5-Tidak boros Dia bukanlah kedekut tapi tahu membelanjakan wang dengan bijaksana. Setiap nikmat yang ada dikongsi bersama mereka yang berhak. 6-Tidak liar matanya Perhatikan apakah matanya kerap meliar ke arah perempuan lain yang lalu-lalang ketika berbicara. Jika ya jawabnya, dia bukanlah calon yang sesuai buat kamu. 7-Terbatas pergaulan Sebagai lelaki dia tahu dia tak mudah jadi fitnah orang, tapi dia tak amalkan cara hidup bebas. 8-Rakan pergaulannya. Rakan2 pergaulannya adalah mereka yang sepertinya. 9-Bertanggungjawab Rasa tanggungjawabnya dapat diukur kepada sejauh mana dia memperuntukkan dirinya utk parents dan ahli familynya. Jika parentsnya hidup melarat sedang dia hidup hebat, nyata dia tak bertanggungjawab 10-Tenang wajah Apa yg tersimpan dalam sanubari kadang2 terpancar pd air muka. Wajahnya tenang, setenang sewaktu dia bercakap dan bertindak. Berbahagialah kamu jika diintai calon yang demikian sifatnya..."
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mawarputih
:WARGA AWAL BERJASA: Menyertai: 15.05.2003 Ahli No: 146
Posting: 283
Dari: Bangsar, K.Lumpur
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Posting pada: 09-06-03 14:14
Syukran sufigirl81 atas artikel yg anti kongsikan nie. Tapi, rasanya kurang sesuai artikel nie diposting under forum lirik nasyid. Mungkin anti tak perasan. Tapi dilain kali harap anti lebih prihatin. Bersama memajukan komuniti ukhwah.com....!!!
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imansyazwani
Warga 4 Bintang Menyertai: 26.02.2005 Ahli No: 14745
Posting: 252
Dari: kuala kangsar
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Posting pada: 01-07-05 16:48
assalamualaikum!! iman harap bakal suami iman memiliki sifat yang dinyatakan oleh sufigirl81!! amin........
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puteri_nailofar
Warga 4 Bintang Menyertai: 04.05.2005 Ahli No: 16297
Posting: 258
Dari: Kazakhstan
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Posting pada: 01-07-05 20:14
Loh... silap landing agaknya posting ini! tapi tak apa...sebab yang penting isinya yang best..
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rifhan
Warga 3 Bintang Menyertai: 16.03.2005 Ahli No: 15169
Posting: 92
Dari: selangor
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Posting pada: 01-07-05 22:19
assalamualaikum... harap2 satu hari nanti saye dapat suami macam tu jugak.. aamiin... #rifhan#
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Nafizatul
Warga 3 Bintang Menyertai: 30.03.2005 Ahli No: 15443
Posting: 80
Dari: Selangor
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Posting pada: 02-07-05 00:15
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hyunckel_asyraf
WARGA SETIA Menyertai: 12.01.2005 Ahli No: 13668
Posting: 414
Dari: United Kingdom
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Posting pada: 02-07-05 01:10
tapi kan,macam mana u gurls nak tau calon tu ada semua ciri2 yang disebutkan tu ye,terutamanya kalau tak ada antara mahram yang kenal dengan calon tu?bukankah dalam ukhwah ni sndiri banyak artikel berkenaan tak boleh sms lah,tak boleh ckp2,bertanya khabar,apatah lagi berjumpa.so mcmne?im just curious. harap sesiapa yang arif/ada pengalam boleh kongsi pendapat
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ummuafeera
Warga 3 Bintang Menyertai: 13.01.2005 Ahli No: 13690
Posting: 140
Dari: jb
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Posting pada: 02-07-05 09:12
ni forward dari email.... Start from months a go i always pray to Allaah to give me a husband... I asked Him to give me someone who pious, mature, nice, tender, forgiving, passionate, honest, peaceful, generous, understanding, pleasant, warm, intelligent, humorous, attentive, compassionate and truthful. I even mentioned the physical characteristics... tall and has beard. As time went by I added the required list of my wanted husband. One night, after doing my night prayer... I am thinking and thinking "well God is Fair... all what He do are true and right" Because He is Fair, I cannot have what I ask from Him. I look at my self... and thinking... "Can i have someone with all of these character if my self dont have such character?" Can i get someone who is full of love if sometimes my self still hostile? Can i get someone who is generous if sometimes I can be cruel? or someone forgiving; if i still hide revenge...? Can I get someone patient if i always late to realise that there is wisdom from Allaah's test? I remember what Allaah's say in the Qur'an "Bad statements are for bad people (or bad women for bad men) and bad people for bad statements (or bad men for bad women). Good statements are for good people (or good women for good men) and good people for good statements (or good men for good women), such (good people) are innocent of (each and every) bad statement which they say, for them is Forgiveness, and Rizqun Karîm (generous provision i.e.Paradise)". Aha so I dont busy my self to care what my husband should be only... But The first thing to do I must care with my self. I must care how to change my bad habit... and etc. I say to my self "I must start from now struggle to be better...and always pray and pray to Allaah... to make more beautiful my deen, my Ibadah and my akhlaq" Allaah is not going to reward his pious righteous servants with anything but good.. so "my self!" be good and get good insha Allaah. Allaah has created men and women as company for one another, so that they can procreate and live together in peace and tranquility according to His commandments and the directions of His Messenger. And now i learn something, If Allaah doesnt give me the husband like what i want...may be He will give me someone who could grow to have all qualities I am searching for... rather than to make me waste my time to find someone who already have the qualities I want. Mariage is like a school. It is a life-long span education. It is where our partner and us make adjustment and aim not merely to please each other,but to be better muslim and to make a solid teamwork. And if Allaah do not give us a perfect partner,thats because we are not perfect either. He will give us a partner with whom we would grow together. Thats why... Marriage is our Best, Last Chance to grow up. Rabbana dzalamna anfusana wailam tagfirlana watarhamna lanakunana minnal khasirin
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ummuafeera
Warga 3 Bintang Menyertai: 13.01.2005 Ahli No: 13690
Posting: 140
Dari: jb
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Posting pada: 02-07-05 09:13
HOLLY QUR’AN THE LOVE LETTER OF THE BELOVED ONE Bandung 19th April 2004 ( 6:00 am WIB) wrote by Rytha Nur'aini When we love someone all that come from him/her are beautiful and wonderful. We love every single thing comes from our beloved one. We admire everything about him/her. We think she/he is the most and the only perfect person in the world. We do unconditional sacrifice to do our best effort to understand deeply his/her language: his/her words, gestures, countenances, even understand of his/her silent. We try to understand every single word that composed for us, listen heartily every singles things that come from her/his mouth. We want to understand our beloved one with heart, listen him/her with heart. All of them are just in intention to be totally compassion, sympathy, and empathy as the devotion to our beloved one and to grow our love to him/her more. He/she is being the most important part of our life and even we take care of him/her more than we care ourselves. We would do anything sincerely and unconditionally to please our beloved one. The consequence we would try our best to watch out our behavior to not annoy her/him even just a bit. Ultimately we only think how to please our beloved one and how to make that person happy whole time, just to see his/her smiles face whole times. Live seem just with highest goal to please the beloved one… Have you ever got love letter? Have you ever written love letters? If not let’s we imagine as if we ever did that, lets we imagine as if we are a true lover. Now, lets we think Allah is our beloved one and the only one who deserve to be loved whole heartily, He is the destination, the foundation and the source of all the love in this world. And Imagine Holly Quran is His love letters that sent for us through our beloved messenger Muhammad SAW. Lets think we actually just a lover in a short journey searching our beloved one and we are in lost tying find the way to reach our beloved one (Allah swt). All we know He is waiting us, He always there but He actually very close and always watch us and He said a promise one day He will meet us and He will show His face to His sincere lovers, subhanallah – an ultimate gift for every lover to see one that loved. For that reason He has composed a book (Holly Quran) and it sent with His mercy because He loves us. He sent it as guider to read, understood and followed. It seem He said, "Read this my lovers and you will find Me". If we think Holly Quran as His love letters and if we sure it come from our beloved one we must yearn hardly to understand every singles words there. Even if we can’t understand the language we could feel the power behind that language, could feel the signal of love that sent while He composed it, just like the heart of lover that always in the sensitive frequency to catch the signal of the beloved through the barrier of language, distance and times. We could feel we are reading something lovely from our beloved one, even just only touch it, the heart has already started beating think we are going to read lovely words from our beloved one. We could feel the beauty, think all wonderful and amazing, our beloved one talking with us through His letters. We cant pass our days without start by read His love letters, It like kind of addiction and necessity to read His love letter whole times and make it part our life. When we feel down and sad we remember Him and read His love words to peace our heart, when we feel alone and get lost we read his love letter to feel being loved to feel never being abandon and feel always have guider to show the way. When we hardly need best friends to share we go talk with Him in silent night, privately and closely while He could listen and understand the deepest side of our heart without we tell Him. We remember Him in every time, and His love letters always accompany us in every moment of our life, in our sad and happy moment. We are in journey to be a true lover to find His love; therefore we must try our best to please Him in anything that we do. Ultimately we cant live without follow what He wishes and devote all our life and all we do just to please him…. as He is our beloved one. People said what we read could influence the way we thought. Can we imagine if we read Holly Quran everyday and try to understand it everyday, so Holly Qur'an will influence the way we thought everyday, subhanallah…. We must try our best to keep Holly Quran it inside our heart, not just part of our book collection that never moved from our bookshelf. How many of use who care to read it everyday…how many of us who has "tafseer" be part of our book collections to understand every single word our beloved one?? ~*~ As you come to the Quran, you come to a new world. No other venture in your life can be so momentous and crucial, so blissful and rewarding, as your journey to and through the Quran. It is a journey that will take you through the endless joys and riches of the words that your Creator and Lord has sent to you and all mankind. Here you will find a world of untold treasures of knowledge and wisdom to guide you on the pathways of life, to mould your thoughts and actions. In it you will find deep insights to enrich you and steer you along the right course. From it you will receive a radiant light to illumine the deeper reaches of your soul. Here you will encounter profound emotions, a warmth to melt your heart and bring tears running down your cheeks. It is crucial for you because, as you travel through the Quran, at every step you will be summoned to choose, and to commit to Allah. To read the Quran is nothing less than to live the Quran willingly, sincerely, devotedly, and totally. The outcome of your entire life depends on how you heed the call given by Allah. The journey is therefore decisive for your existence, for mankind, for the future of human civilization. Know, then, that it is the Quran, and only the Quran, which can lead you on and on to success and glory in this world and in the world to come.
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edlin
WARGA SETIA Menyertai: 03.08.2004 Ahli No: 10459
Posting: 411
Dari: sg
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Posting pada: 02-07-05 11:33
siapkan diri untuk jadi yang terbaik... itu salah satu cara tuk mencari jodoh...then.. insyaAllah, kita jugak akan dapat yang terbaik.. itukan janji Allah, so, tak payah ar nak risau...
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syahidatul
-WARGA AMAT SETIA- Menyertai: 07.11.2004 Ahli No: 12341
Posting: 3781
Dari: Petaling Jaya
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Posting pada: 03-07-05 00:03
kalau dah dicintai oleh insan lelaki yang memiliki kesemua sifat yang 10 tu.. tapi gajinya rendah, bagaimana? zaman sekarang ni, tiada duit, payah....
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tadpole119
Warga 1 Bintang Menyertai: 31.12.2003 Ahli No: 6110
Posting: 21
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Posting pada: 03-07-05 00:30
hati ini diciptakan untuk mencintaiNya, tiadalah cinta tanpa mengenaliNya... indahnya makrifatullah shg mmbawa kebahagiaan hakiki tanpa rasa gundah di hati. hidup ini biar bererti setiap pandangan tersingkap rahsia kehidupan, jiwa kan tenang, rasa hebatnya Allah shg mmbw rasa takut hy pd Nya... mmbangkitN kesucian hati terarah untuk sentiasa mencari keredhaanNya...
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cahayainsani
Warga 4 Bintang Menyertai: 16.08.2004 Ahli No: 10574
Posting: 235
Dari: bumi Allah
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Posting pada: 11-07-05 08:21
Assalamu'alaikum... mudah-mudahan kepada Allah jua dirafakkan doa.. smg bertemu insan sebegitu.. Amin....
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sya_ryn
WARGA SETIA Menyertai: 25.09.2004 Ahli No: 11387
Posting: 3187
Dari: Tanjung Malim Perak
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Posting pada: 11-07-05 08:40
Andainya Cinta Itu Hendak Diberi...Andainya Terima Kasih PadaMU YANG KASIH !!
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